I went from my parents home to a long, difficult marriage. I've detailed on other posts that my kids live with the ex, I don't see them as he's poisoned them.
I've joined meet ups, I talk with friends, or go to their places, I do lunches. None of it seems to help. Coming home to an empty condo is a killer.
Everyone says, focus on YOU now. Well I just plain, plain hate sitting alone.
I've been separated 9 months now. He won't cooperate or answer my lawyers letters. He wont' give me a copy of the keys to our little hobby farm. The kids don't return my texts.
Everyone says that a person has to learn to live alone and like it before they should date. Well it's 9 months and I totally detest being alone. They also say wait until you are divorced to date, well I can't even get him to answer the letters for a legal separation.
He's still emailing me: shaming and blaming me for leaving, telling me the kids are stressed and sick and I should come back and work things out.
I live about 6 blocks from the family home and it's beyond horrible knowing the kids are so close, yet so far.
I've joined meet ups, I talk with friends, or go to their places, I do lunches. None of it seems to help. Coming home to an empty condo is a killer.
Everyone says, focus on YOU now. Well I just plain, plain hate sitting alone.
I've been separated 9 months now. He won't cooperate or answer my lawyers letters. He wont' give me a copy of the keys to our little hobby farm. The kids don't return my texts.
Everyone says that a person has to learn to live alone and like it before they should date. Well it's 9 months and I totally detest being alone. They also say wait until you are divorced to date, well I can't even get him to answer the letters for a legal separation.
He's still emailing me: shaming and blaming me for leaving, telling me the kids are stressed and sick and I should come back and work things out.
I live about 6 blocks from the family home and it's beyond horrible knowing the kids are so close, yet so far.
Put the internet to work for you.
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