I am just so tired of it all. Men checking out girls at the gym, making crude comments to each other, making dirty jokes, WHEN YOU ARE NOT AROUND.When you raise it up with your husband, he says oh you need to chill, its just stupid talk and he loves you at the end of the day. he cant control it if his friends talk shi&t.
One day, I was talking to my husband and his friend (guy), we were talking about how few girlfriends in our group had started working out more recently before breaking up with our guy friends. This situation was generalized into how women do this a lot, workout to get ready for single life if they are unsure about you, and then dumb your ass. Both men were protrayed as dumb founded poor guys while those girls were manipulating, selfish creatures. Im tired of men always putting down women.
I hate having to roll my eyes and let my guy check out other women in instagram, in the streets EVEN IF IT IS JUST A GLANCE.
I am tired of MEN talking about women like they are a piece of meat when there are men in the group who are married!! i feel it is so disrespectful to me. I dont care, people out there who will say women do the same. i dont do this, and no girlfriends, mom, aunt, sisters, counsins of mine that i knwo do this once they are in a serious relationship. its hurtful and i am tired of looking the other way or else seeming crazy, controlling, too sensitive!!!! Im tired of us having to deal with it cause boys are boys and they have eyes. oh thats how they talk. Or if there is a bachellor party, strip clubs are almost always involved because that is how society sees it. NO I AM NOT OKAY WITH HIM GOING TO A STRIPCLUB EVEN IF HE DOESNT GET A LAPDANCE. ITS A FORM OF CHEATING WHEN YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE. Maybe I am just old fashioned but it is NOT OK to flirt with other women in the bars when you have a wife even if it is HARMLESS FLIRTING AND STAYS AT THAT. I DONT UNDERSTAND why yo u need to do this, it hurts our feelings and makes us feel like we am not with someone who loves us unconditionally but with someone who has a character we do not like and do not want to be with. EVERYONE SAYS OH THATS OKAY IF IT IS WITHIN LIMITS AND EVEN GOOD FOR A RELATIONSHIP BUT NO. I DO NOT AGREE WITH THIS. AM I THE ONLY ONE??
Sometimes I wonder if ALL MEN are like this and I am doomed to be alone if I dont accept these little realities that may seem small but make me feel bad about myself and my relationship.
One day, I was talking to my husband and his friend (guy), we were talking about how few girlfriends in our group had started working out more recently before breaking up with our guy friends. This situation was generalized into how women do this a lot, workout to get ready for single life if they are unsure about you, and then dumb your ass. Both men were protrayed as dumb founded poor guys while those girls were manipulating, selfish creatures. Im tired of men always putting down women.
I hate having to roll my eyes and let my guy check out other women in instagram, in the streets EVEN IF IT IS JUST A GLANCE.
I am tired of MEN talking about women like they are a piece of meat when there are men in the group who are married!! i feel it is so disrespectful to me. I dont care, people out there who will say women do the same. i dont do this, and no girlfriends, mom, aunt, sisters, counsins of mine that i knwo do this once they are in a serious relationship. its hurtful and i am tired of looking the other way or else seeming crazy, controlling, too sensitive!!!! Im tired of us having to deal with it cause boys are boys and they have eyes. oh thats how they talk. Or if there is a bachellor party, strip clubs are almost always involved because that is how society sees it. NO I AM NOT OKAY WITH HIM GOING TO A STRIPCLUB EVEN IF HE DOESNT GET A LAPDANCE. ITS A FORM OF CHEATING WHEN YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE. Maybe I am just old fashioned but it is NOT OK to flirt with other women in the bars when you have a wife even if it is HARMLESS FLIRTING AND STAYS AT THAT. I DONT UNDERSTAND why yo u need to do this, it hurts our feelings and makes us feel like we am not with someone who loves us unconditionally but with someone who has a character we do not like and do not want to be with. EVERYONE SAYS OH THATS OKAY IF IT IS WITHIN LIMITS AND EVEN GOOD FOR A RELATIONSHIP BUT NO. I DO NOT AGREE WITH THIS. AM I THE ONLY ONE??
Sometimes I wonder if ALL MEN are like this and I am doomed to be alone if I dont accept these little realities that may seem small but make me feel bad about myself and my relationship.
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