I didn't even understand how the affair logic went, but I saw that trying to win that battle was pointless:
My situation was the unrepentant cheater, full of blame shift, lies, manipulations and reversals, using kids as pawns, pain points being exploited, cheated on for the pain and power, etc...
"Hey broh,
That excuse about take some time to get things straight in your life before bringing her in is BS. She's as imperfect as you.
Thing about it, is if she made up her mind that you are not worth the effort, you will expend alot of your energy trying to "reel her in". As it ain't happening, like trying to reel in a fencepost. This energy expenditure could cause you to become depressed, or extremely agitated.
Its probably not worth it. Her expectations of you, made it nearly impossible. And after you can see she had your moves decided for you, it should leave a bad taste.
I'm not sure what to say, but step back from this. Take care and get yourself in order. She might come back around, but only because you look more attractive. It is possible that she doesnt' even love you...
I dont know what else to say, but get yourself together and dont worry about trying to "reel her in". Use all your energy on yourself."
My situation was the unrepentant cheater, full of blame shift, lies, manipulations and reversals, using kids as pawns, pain points being exploited, cheated on for the pain and power, etc...
"Hey broh,
That excuse about take some time to get things straight in your life before bringing her in is BS. She's as imperfect as you.
Thing about it, is if she made up her mind that you are not worth the effort, you will expend alot of your energy trying to "reel her in". As it ain't happening, like trying to reel in a fencepost. This energy expenditure could cause you to become depressed, or extremely agitated.
Its probably not worth it. Her expectations of you, made it nearly impossible. And after you can see she had your moves decided for you, it should leave a bad taste.
I'm not sure what to say, but step back from this. Take care and get yourself in order. She might come back around, but only because you look more attractive. It is possible that she doesnt' even love you...
I dont know what else to say, but get yourself together and dont worry about trying to "reel her in". Use all your energy on yourself."
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