Basically, I developed feelings for my flatmate at uni, who I spent a lot of time with and got to know well. I was rejected by her and naturally felt bad at the time but I continued to blame myself and felt crap about the situation for the next 18 months. I've now finally got over it and we're good friends but I put myself through a lot to maintain the friendship. On the plus side, I now see no way we could ever be more than friends.
Fast forward and I was spending time with another girl who I like. We got on great, had a lot of fun together and I really saw her as the ideal girlfriend. Problem was she also didn't reciprocate so when I tried to progress things, she said it wasn't what she wanted. I understand that's how she feels but now things have got back to how they were 2 years ago with girl A.
We've cut down the contact a lot but that's hurting me as much cos I can't see her anymore. I know from experience how difficult it is to maintain a friendship after rejection so I'm sure I've done the right thing but still care about her so much. There's only 4 months left at uni so the idea of not seeing her ever again gets to me but I don't think I'll ever be able to see her as just a friend :(
How do I get over my attachment issues and does anyone have any advice with what I should do about girl B? Cheers.
Fast forward and I was spending time with another girl who I like. We got on great, had a lot of fun together and I really saw her as the ideal girlfriend. Problem was she also didn't reciprocate so when I tried to progress things, she said it wasn't what she wanted. I understand that's how she feels but now things have got back to how they were 2 years ago with girl A.
We've cut down the contact a lot but that's hurting me as much cos I can't see her anymore. I know from experience how difficult it is to maintain a friendship after rejection so I'm sure I've done the right thing but still care about her so much. There's only 4 months left at uni so the idea of not seeing her ever again gets to me but I don't think I'll ever be able to see her as just a friend :(
How do I get over my attachment issues and does anyone have any advice with what I should do about girl B? Cheers.
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