So here's the story...
About 2 months ago, I started spending time with a coworker (she had just recently joined our staff) whom I've known for about 2 yrs. We would go to breakfast, dinners, movies, bowling, etc. We started and ended each day texting or talking on the phone. During that time she started spending the night 2 or 3 times a week but we didn't have sex until week 2.
Then all of a sudden she became distant. She didn't return texts and calls, etc. I sensed she might have starfed entertaining someone else and later found out it was true. Prior to knowing what my gut had already told me, we had dinner one night after work and I asked that we define our relationship. Her response was coworkers who hang out together. Since I'd developed feelings for her, given the amount of time we'd spent together, I wanted more but she didn't (she was already entertaining someone else). She said she wanted to befriends. I told her I wanted more but since she didn't, I would no longer be hanging out with her anymore. I told her I woould keep my distance at work and would no longer contact her.
Since that conversation, she has made attempt after attempt to have small talk with me at work but I would do all I could to keep my distance, especially since I had feelings for her AND she had been quite chatty to others about her NEW love.
Today, after yet another attempt to converse with me, I told her that she should've gotten the hint by now. I haven't responded to her attempts and I didn't plan on it. She got testy saying that she didn't care if I wasn't talking to her because she wasn't doing it for me. She told me I was being selfish and childish and that those were the reasons she wouldn't take our relationship to the next level.
Did I miss something? She basically pushed me aside for someone else and now is bothered because I refuse to talk to her. That doesn't make sense or does it?
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About 2 months ago, I started spending time with a coworker (she had just recently joined our staff) whom I've known for about 2 yrs. We would go to breakfast, dinners, movies, bowling, etc. We started and ended each day texting or talking on the phone. During that time she started spending the night 2 or 3 times a week but we didn't have sex until week 2.
Then all of a sudden she became distant. She didn't return texts and calls, etc. I sensed she might have starfed entertaining someone else and later found out it was true. Prior to knowing what my gut had already told me, we had dinner one night after work and I asked that we define our relationship. Her response was coworkers who hang out together. Since I'd developed feelings for her, given the amount of time we'd spent together, I wanted more but she didn't (she was already entertaining someone else). She said she wanted to befriends. I told her I wanted more but since she didn't, I would no longer be hanging out with her anymore. I told her I woould keep my distance at work and would no longer contact her.
Since that conversation, she has made attempt after attempt to have small talk with me at work but I would do all I could to keep my distance, especially since I had feelings for her AND she had been quite chatty to others about her NEW love.
Today, after yet another attempt to converse with me, I told her that she should've gotten the hint by now. I haven't responded to her attempts and I didn't plan on it. She got testy saying that she didn't care if I wasn't talking to her because she wasn't doing it for me. She told me I was being selfish and childish and that those were the reasons she wouldn't take our relationship to the next level.
Did I miss something? She basically pushed me aside for someone else and now is bothered because I refuse to talk to her. That doesn't make sense or does it?
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