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Is this a crush? What should i do?

A week ago i went to a club and met this guy. He was really nice and asked for my number. After that we texted each other every day and he invited me to watch a film with him and his roommates. He seemed to want me to come and it was all really nice. He made sure i was okay as i'd had a bit to drink and we talked for a bit.
One of his roommates was on medication and went really ill, seeing things and talking nonsense, which scared us all. After that i left and he brushed me off, completely uninterested in saying goodbye. He texted a day later saying sorry about what had happened with his roommate, and i ended it saying 'don't worry'. He hasn't texted back. It's only been a few days but i feel like i've blown it.

I've only had one crush before but he turned into my bully so my feelings were super strong and intense.

With this, i just can't stop thinking about him and wishing he'd text me which seems so pathetic, i don't want to be this type of girl :/ I didn't think i fancied him at the time but as we'd had a bit to drink there was a minute or two where i wanted to kiss him so badly. It went away after though, but now that's all i want to do.

I'm the type of person who will just leave it and wish it had a different ending. I texted him last so i don't want to text again in case i'll look clingy or if he's just not interested, and it was only a few days ago so it feels too soon.

Maybe when he met me the second time i was a disappointment and he doesn't want to hang out with me now. I have seen him before with another girl at a club, so maybe he meets girls all the time and has forgotten about me now. I don't even know why he invited me. He does have a lot of girl friends so it would be normal for him to ask me out as a friend, especially as we were with others.

The question was meant to be 'does this sound like i have a crush?' but now i'm just ranting or getting it off my chest...

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