Found out 2 days ago that a long time friend had an EA and possibly a PA with a co-worker. It happened a few months back and is supposedly over now, so the wife isn't in the throws of it the way she described to me she was a few months back.
Her H has been a good friend for over 15 years now. I am disappointed in him to say the least. I can see how they are very very different and in some ways he may need someone more exciting, but he will also sacrifice not just his current family but also her acceptance of him, her willingness to let his crap go, etc.
I really am just very disappointed in him and want to tell him so, but it's not my place. He is still my friend, but I am mad at him. She is past the initial anger, so I don't want to stir the pot by telling her I'm mad. She is my friend as well, but I knew him first before they ever married.
Not even sure why I'm writing this. Mainly just to get it out because it is bugging me and I don't want to tell anyone I know.
Her H has been a good friend for over 15 years now. I am disappointed in him to say the least. I can see how they are very very different and in some ways he may need someone more exciting, but he will also sacrifice not just his current family but also her acceptance of him, her willingness to let his crap go, etc.
I really am just very disappointed in him and want to tell him so, but it's not my place. He is still my friend, but I am mad at him. She is past the initial anger, so I don't want to stir the pot by telling her I'm mad. She is my friend as well, but I knew him first before they ever married.
Not even sure why I'm writing this. Mainly just to get it out because it is bugging me and I don't want to tell anyone I know.
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