Hello all!
I'm new to this forum and am looking for some advice.
I have been dating my current boyrfriend for about 7 months, things have been a bit rocky but we love eachother and things are great at the moment.
The issue is, he used to be a bit of a ladies man before me, hasn't had a realtionship for 2.5 years since his last horrific relationship (he's 32, I'm 26) and has been a bachelor till he met me. Alot of women have fancied women, and he dated around for that time.
Quite a few of his female friends (about 3-4) are ones that he's has a 'thing' with in the past (lasting a few weeks), it died down and they remained friends.
One of them (let's call her GRACE) , I think, never got over it, (it was his decision to not take it further, this was about 1.5 yrs ago) and has acted weird since. They still meet up alone, go to an exhibition together, that's it. He's not into her but it makes me uncomfortable. She knows about me, I've met her (as his gf) and it was fine, but I have a weird feeling. He knows how I feel and said that things are weird between them two, and he's considering ending their friendship.
The MAIN ISSUE:
ON tuesday, he mentioned to me that he's made a new single female friend, from his acting course. He said, he wanted to tell me, because, he's never been in this situation (having been single for so long) and didn't know if it was weird. This new girl, she's 25, french, an actress, and they had met that day to go to an art exhibition together (he's randomly called her up and gone to meet her).
I didn't know how to react because I'd been caught off guard. I looked uncomfortable, said that I trusted HIM but not the other 'girls'
nb. I am NOT a jealous type!
I just sort of look awkward and then we talked about girl no 1 (Grace) and moved away from the subject.
What do you all think??
Is it ok for a boyfriend to make a new single female friend?
Isn't he leading her on?
Is it weird for my bf to have many female friends?
How do I broach the subject without sounding jealous or pushing him away?
Is the fact that HE mentioned it, show that he knows it's weird?
Thanks and sorry for rambling!!!
I'm new to this forum and am looking for some advice.
I have been dating my current boyrfriend for about 7 months, things have been a bit rocky but we love eachother and things are great at the moment.
The issue is, he used to be a bit of a ladies man before me, hasn't had a realtionship for 2.5 years since his last horrific relationship (he's 32, I'm 26) and has been a bachelor till he met me. Alot of women have fancied women, and he dated around for that time.
Quite a few of his female friends (about 3-4) are ones that he's has a 'thing' with in the past (lasting a few weeks), it died down and they remained friends.
One of them (let's call her GRACE) , I think, never got over it, (it was his decision to not take it further, this was about 1.5 yrs ago) and has acted weird since. They still meet up alone, go to an exhibition together, that's it. He's not into her but it makes me uncomfortable. She knows about me, I've met her (as his gf) and it was fine, but I have a weird feeling. He knows how I feel and said that things are weird between them two, and he's considering ending their friendship.
The MAIN ISSUE:
ON tuesday, he mentioned to me that he's made a new single female friend, from his acting course. He said, he wanted to tell me, because, he's never been in this situation (having been single for so long) and didn't know if it was weird. This new girl, she's 25, french, an actress, and they had met that day to go to an art exhibition together (he's randomly called her up and gone to meet her).
I didn't know how to react because I'd been caught off guard. I looked uncomfortable, said that I trusted HIM but not the other 'girls'
nb. I am NOT a jealous type!
I just sort of look awkward and then we talked about girl no 1 (Grace) and moved away from the subject.
What do you all think??
Is it ok for a boyfriend to make a new single female friend?
Isn't he leading her on?
Is it weird for my bf to have many female friends?
How do I broach the subject without sounding jealous or pushing him away?
Is the fact that HE mentioned it, show that he knows it's weird?
Thanks and sorry for rambling!!!
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