Short background
Had a 2 decade marriage and 2 kids. Wife was a SAHM. Caught her cheating with a younger man working at the YMCA. When confronted she lied her a$$ off then when hit with proof she couldn't deny- she freaked out and told me it was all my fault.
She couldn't divorce me fast enough and said she would replace me with a better man who could provide the lifestyle she wanted. I had purchased a 30K Honda for her. She said she was embarassed to drive it because everyone has one. She wanted a German car. Also, I paid for a membership to the Y, she wanted to join a country club.
I could never figure out why she was with Y guy as she had such a focus on expensive things. After being divorced and now supporting herself- she has seen the light and wants to get back together with me (can you say no f-ing way in hell).
This morning- she provided me with a typed timeline and plan for R. –where was this when it hit the fan?
As it turns out, Y-guy was OM-2… OM-1 was/is a sugar daddy. He's married with kids. His wife has an Audi and they belong to a country club. XWW and OM-1 were fighting over who was leaving their spouse first. She wanted him to- he wanted her to… Long story short- he dumped her. She was upset and had a fling with Y-guy. That's what I caught.
She says that why she wanted the fast divorce and "gave me such a good settlement" Apparently, her attorney advised her against our deal. She thought that sugar daddy would leave his wife as soon as she was available. They did start back up as our divorce was processing, but when it became final, sugar daddy changed his mind and decided to stay with his wife.
I thanked her for the information, but told her she needed to move on with her life and that I still have no desire to R with her. I do know who sugar daddy is and am contacting his wife. Although I have no proof other than what my XWW says. But at least she will hear about it.
Had a 2 decade marriage and 2 kids. Wife was a SAHM. Caught her cheating with a younger man working at the YMCA. When confronted she lied her a$$ off then when hit with proof she couldn't deny- she freaked out and told me it was all my fault.
She couldn't divorce me fast enough and said she would replace me with a better man who could provide the lifestyle she wanted. I had purchased a 30K Honda for her. She said she was embarassed to drive it because everyone has one. She wanted a German car. Also, I paid for a membership to the Y, she wanted to join a country club.
I could never figure out why she was with Y guy as she had such a focus on expensive things. After being divorced and now supporting herself- she has seen the light and wants to get back together with me (can you say no f-ing way in hell).
This morning- she provided me with a typed timeline and plan for R. –where was this when it hit the fan?
As it turns out, Y-guy was OM-2… OM-1 was/is a sugar daddy. He's married with kids. His wife has an Audi and they belong to a country club. XWW and OM-1 were fighting over who was leaving their spouse first. She wanted him to- he wanted her to… Long story short- he dumped her. She was upset and had a fling with Y-guy. That's what I caught.
She says that why she wanted the fast divorce and "gave me such a good settlement" Apparently, her attorney advised her against our deal. She thought that sugar daddy would leave his wife as soon as she was available. They did start back up as our divorce was processing, but when it became final, sugar daddy changed his mind and decided to stay with his wife.
I thanked her for the information, but told her she needed to move on with her life and that I still have no desire to R with her. I do know who sugar daddy is and am contacting his wife. Although I have no proof other than what my XWW says. But at least she will hear about it.
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