My wife and I have been married for five years (we're both 30). It has been relatively rocky, especially the last couple years. We don't fight (as in scream at each other), we just have significant differences and personality clashes.
About two years ago, we went to marriage counseling (tried a couple different counselors). Did that for about a year and a half. About 4 months ago, we decided to pour everything we could into the relationship but about a month ago we decided it just wasn't working and separated.
Right before we separated, we had a condom break (the last time we had sex!). Well, of course, it turns out now she is pregnant.
I am back at home with her but I am lost at what to do next. I feel an obligation to stay and try to make it work, but I feel hopeless that we will have much success relationship-wise since we have really worked hard in the past and it just didn't turn out.
Lots of emotions right now. I just don't know what to do. I don't even know if I have a specific question, but any thoughts are appreciated. Anyone been through anything like this? Thanks!
About two years ago, we went to marriage counseling (tried a couple different counselors). Did that for about a year and a half. About 4 months ago, we decided to pour everything we could into the relationship but about a month ago we decided it just wasn't working and separated.
Right before we separated, we had a condom break (the last time we had sex!). Well, of course, it turns out now she is pregnant.
I am back at home with her but I am lost at what to do next. I feel an obligation to stay and try to make it work, but I feel hopeless that we will have much success relationship-wise since we have really worked hard in the past and it just didn't turn out.
Lots of emotions right now. I just don't know what to do. I don't even know if I have a specific question, but any thoughts are appreciated. Anyone been through anything like this? Thanks!
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