| Hubby and I have had two counseling sessions. I am being told to *let it go*, that we need to move past the affair to start healing. My problem is that I still feel a great deal of pain and mistrust and I am not sure how to *let it go*. Hubby moved a thousand miles away for a new job, I remained with our daughter so that she could finish school. We were living apart of 10 months, and things were not very good when he decided to take his new job. He met a younger married woman and developed strong friendship with her. He contacted me and told me he wasn't sure how he felt about our marriage (I was not aware of the Ow) I got on a plane and proceeded to make the trip to fight for our marriage. We spent two wonderful weeks alone, reconnecting and agreed that I would move and we would try to hold onto our marriage. AFTER I left, he stepped up the relationship with her, brought her into OUR house and proceeded to try to move ahead with their affa ir. SHE stopped the actual intercourse, but way too much happened before she stopped it. started putting the pieces together and he came clean....with little bits of the story. I knew he was not giving me the entire story and it took a while before he told me the truth. I was so hurt that he chose to bring her into the home that I had not even had the chance to become mine, and that he betrayed me. I just don't know where to go from here. I want to move on, but I don't know how to. This is not his first affair, and the trust is just shattered... |
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