| Long story, I will try to be brief. Wife and I have been together 13 years (married 9 years). We have two young kids. She has been having an affair for at least 1.5 years with a co-worker (all the "classic" affair signs and I know for sure). She will not admit to it and have given her chances to admit. She will not cut the cord with the guy. I have been a great husband (quit a good job at her request to be stay-at-home dad; she has a great, stable, lucrative career). I'm not fat, lazy, dumb, abusive, addicted or anything else. She "goes to work" all the time (even at 11:00PM) and otherwise finds ways to get away on weekends. I've done all the self reflection someone can do. I feel like I am starting to resent her (never felt this until last couple weeks). Her and the other guy must be slowing down since she is at home more often now. I guess I assumed (hoped) she would walk away and go be with the other man (he has never been married). Is there any chance once the feelings of resentment set in? |
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