Value Meal

As human beings we look for value in everything.But I wonder where is the value that a LD person receives from being so self center about sex.Another way to ask this is .I am not very nice or good about excepting the dry spells that my LD wife gives me.But there must be a greater value she gets from it to allow it to happen. As sex go's I live in her world.She has control of it.Its hers to offer.I use to get pissed off about it. And wein and beg, At this point in life I just leave her alone.I limit my conversations with her,Bring no humor to the table.Just really don't hang out with her.But no matter what I do to her .She finds value in staying the course.She is happier not enjoying a well balanced sex life.She appears to be just fine with no sex and a bad relationship.She could have it the other way.But she finds value in the way she has it. Resently I have removed all cuddling,affection,limit conversation,Really trying to create the roommate relationship that works for her.I raised the white flag and surrender to her lack of sexual desire.But I try to find peace within with it.I just wonder why is it so important to her .Why do these types of people trade the wonderful life they could have,For their own sake

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