Sex during the affair

I have a couple of questions about the sex in the affair. I have read so many times that the sex during the affair is the greatest. My first question is, if the WS spouse really does think this then why do they want to stay with the BS? Also, as the BS how can you be o.k. with staying with somebody who had the best sex ever with somebody else during your marriage?

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