"Proper" dating.

Recently divorced. I did date someone during entire divorce process. Woke up one morning and decided to end it. I think that was the right long term move. Thinking it would be quite a while before anyone was actually interested in dating me I asked someone out that I knew through work (not at my work, someone that works with company mine is associated with). She said yes and we have been out 4 times in the last few weeks. Here is the problem. About the same time I fired up an online dating profile and met 3-4 ladies that expressed interest in going out. I have gone out with girl 2 once and girl 3 twice. I have date with girl 3 a weeknight this week. I am in no rush to jump into bed with any of them but 2 of them are already dropping major hints, one is being very forward and blunt about it. So far it is early enough with all 3 that I think I am OK in going out once or twice more with all of them. If I have to make a choice I think it should be an informed decision. There has been no talk between us about dating other people but when I tell them "I have next Tuesday free" wouldn't that kind of lead you to believe I'm busy the other days for a reason? Not sure how to handle this. In one way I do not want to use any of them. In another how can I make good decision on 4 hours of getting to know someone. In another way if they are being the sexual aggressor and I have not pushed or promised anything am I doing anything wrong if we wind up in bed? Help.

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979