How long did it take for you to get over the " sex " part of the affair?

I'm curious. As you know one of the hardest parts of dealing with infidelity is the " mind movies " as some call it. Knowing your partner had sex with someone else and then came home like nothing happened. Finding these details out can make one feel disgusting and can be a huge blow to your esteem and respect and make you look at your partner in a different light. It does for me. Did some of you ever get over it? If so, how long did it take?

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