| Hi everyone, I don't know where to go from here. A few months ago I happened to look at my partners phone as it was flashing, to find that he had been on a chat forum, chatting to multiple women, mostly flirty and explicit cyber sex. I confronted him, he said nothing at all and we did not speak for several days. He voluntarily stopped using his phone for a few months, I did not ask him too, and no doubt he would have found this difficult. On a recent trip home to visit family (we moved interstate for work) I went to log into my FB and discovered a secondary FB account which he said he used for programs etc he didn't want to use his normal account for, this account has no FB friends. A couple of nights ago I went on his computer and saw on this FB account the only application was a chat site, which I found again he was chatting to women both flirty and explicit cyber sex. He was asleep at the time and I slept in the spare bedroom. He woke up in the morning completely panicked wanting to know what was wrong. When I confronted him about it, this time he lied and said it was old chat, but I knew this was a lie as I had seen the chat was last used 6 hours ago. After a silence he admitted that he has a problem with chat, he used to chat before we were together and started again 6 months ago. He said it was nothing to do with me. I said I don't know that I will ever be able to trust him again, he agreed. Since then we have not talked and have not been sleeping in the same bed. He has not done anything besides watch tv. I don't know where to go from here. I don't want to go through the pain of separation, it will be difficult as I will have to move back home, quite likely with my parents for awhile, our families and friends will be very upset, BUT I also don't want to stay in a relationship with a person that clearly doesn't respect me and care for me how he should. He also said that he knew I would find out. :confused: Advice please! | |||
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