| Link to thread i created about second date http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...600&p=40734320 Sooo, i'm 20 and i'm quite shy around women. Within the past year though i went out of my first 3 dates with this lovely lovely girl, however she saw me as a friend-i realised i made a few nervous mistakes, but oh well-it ended but we stayed in contact. We became seemingly veery good friends, talking almost every other night about everything you can imagine. But before new year she and i decided to go out on another date, she had hinted strongly all night (talking about being 'bored', 'needing to open her eyes' ect ect). Unfortunately the date went south, i tried to hold her hand at the end and she ended up telling me again she saw me just as a friend. Which is fine i suppose.., she put off for 2 weeks and ended up admitted recently she couldn't bring herself to tell me sooner. However just within this day, we spoke for the first time since the date and i had to obviously get a few things off my mind, i asked her why she didn't tell me sooner. Not mad, just confused and hurt. Anyway she ended telling me there was someone else now, "kinda someone else". I didn't really know what to say, just hit me like that. I asked her if she had been on a date yet, she immediately said she was going offline. I sent her message about a minute wishing her all the best, and i was happy for her. (which i am, as i said i loved being friends with her FAR more than dating). She removed me off her facebook friendlist this morning, i don't know why. Would anyone care to guess? i don't know if i'd done something horribly wrong. | |||
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