I've been married for 15yrs. We have 4 children. Found out my husband got a new female friend 9 months ago but continued to lie stating her boyfriend was his friend not her. Continued the lie for 2 straight months until I threw so much evidence on front of him he couldn't deny it anymore. I told him we couldn't continue our marriage unless he cut all ties since he lied about her. 2 months later I found a reciept for flowers to her from him on valentines. Excuse was he felt bad for cutting on off the way he did when they were just friends. Of course I didn't believe him so I kicked him out. We've been back n fourth trying to see if we can get passed the lies but we would be great for a day or two but I could never get rid of the gut feeling he was still lying. So I got into his email n found several pictures of her, a trip to the ocean her naked in the tub, he's clothes on the bed, but yet he denys he went claims she just sent him those. Second trip to the poconos where we went, again claimed he didn't go, until I saw his own reflection in the mirror. Then claimed they just went as friend's. He swears they were nothing more. She wanted more but he never did. He wants to come home to work this out but I don't know if I can if he still can't be completely honest with me. He says he is but I have absolutely no trust in him. I asked him if I can hear what he tells her on why he cannot talk to her ever again but he's response was, "I'm not going to unless I know we can work this out" The only thing that's going through my mind is he doesn't want to end it with her just in case we can't get passed this. Am I wrong here? I'm so lost with this and I don't know what to do or how to act or anything.
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