I would like to thank those of you from this board that took the time to respond to my last thread that is now closed. I did speak with my husband and he is making progress spending more time with our ds. While not all of the posts were nice per say, I am not one to hold a grudge. I would just like you all to know that:
1.) I had a C-section that was not planned, my son was having trouble and would not have made it through a normal labor.
2.) I should have been more clear...I was not mad about him telling me to do laundry. I was upset with his tone and the fact that I had just done a bunch of laundry the day before and did not get to the remaining laundry the next day. I felt like he did not notice this which made me feel unappreciated.
3.) I was asking for advice on how to speak with my husband regarding my feelings and working out an agreement.
Now I try to hand him the baby more often when he is home and he doesn't always play his games right after work. Think of me what you will, but trying to keep peace with my husband and raise a healthy baby is all that matters to me right now. So yes, I don't want to leave my baby crying when I can sooth him or calm him down. I know this means that laundry piles up and I may seem disorganized to others, but it was the advice I was originally given. If you can sooth the baby do it, if not let him cry. :/
Again though, thank you all for giving me advice and I will continue to try to communicate better with my husband. :)
1.) I had a C-section that was not planned, my son was having trouble and would not have made it through a normal labor.
2.) I should have been more clear...I was not mad about him telling me to do laundry. I was upset with his tone and the fact that I had just done a bunch of laundry the day before and did not get to the remaining laundry the next day. I felt like he did not notice this which made me feel unappreciated.
3.) I was asking for advice on how to speak with my husband regarding my feelings and working out an agreement.
Now I try to hand him the baby more often when he is home and he doesn't always play his games right after work. Think of me what you will, but trying to keep peace with my husband and raise a healthy baby is all that matters to me right now. So yes, I don't want to leave my baby crying when I can sooth him or calm him down. I know this means that laundry piles up and I may seem disorganized to others, but it was the advice I was originally given. If you can sooth the baby do it, if not let him cry. :/
Again though, thank you all for giving me advice and I will continue to try to communicate better with my husband. :)
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