Husband and I have had issues in the past concerning his bachelor party. basically he promised not to go to strip club but ended up going and getting a lap dance. that was nearly three years ago. Since then he promised not to go to any more strip clubs. Couple of months ago he went to a bachelor party in vegas. This was his first since his own bachelor party. He decided to only stay one night, as the boys planned on going to a strip club the second night. He told me when he got home, they went to dinner in the food court. Then walked around aimlessly as they had no reservations anywhere that night, and ended up going to a lounge called KOI in Planet Hollywood. He called me on the walk back home to say goodnight. This was I think I forget the exact time but I think around 2, 3am? The next day they went to a pool party and got a cabana. That evening he got a late flight back home.
Anyways, last weekend we went to a wedding of another friend of his and slept overnight at one of his friends house. This was the second time I met this guy friend of his who was at the Bachelor party.
This guy who has been nice to me the whole time otherwise, says to me towards the end of the night, "I have to tell you, your husband is so scared of you! This guy was acting like you had spies there!!? He just wouldn't come out to the clubs with us man! I was like dude!? she isn't even here!! How will she even know?? Lets just go! But he was like, no.. I can't.. I promised my wife I wouldn't go and I wont!"
I was very shocked internally esp as he said this to me in front of his wife there, but I just laughed it off, and said "oh my god you make me look so bad hunny, I didn't say he can't do anything, just did not want him to go to strip club. you make me sound like the devil" And then this friend proceeds to say, "no more like a lunatic crazy psycho!.....:surprise:". (with a haha just joking type attitutde) I mean isnt that inappropriate? He even told me he said "she is not here dude, lets just go". Would you be offended?
So later on I ask my husband what this friend of his is talking about? What the boys had to convince him to do? he then admits they had wanted him to go to a stripclub that night as the grooms best man had not made any reservations anywhere and the men were annoyed at the lack of planning the first night. they were saying lets do the stripclub tonight and the pool party and club bottle service tommorow but due to my husband refusing to go to striplclub they just ended up walking around and going to KOI as hakkasan had huge line. they waited in line for half hour apparently and thought this is not worth it and went to KOI.
FYI - He has not done anything inappropriate since his bachelor party. in his Bachelor party he lied to me numerous time about not getting a lapdance then later on admitted he did. we had agreed that he wouldnt go to a strip club in the first place before his party but he did and lied. Anyways since then we have gone to counseling about this issue, and had numerous conversations/fights/discussions about next bachelor parties. for this reason i assumed he wouldnt want the HASSLE of going to stripclub cause he knows i will leave him if i find out he did and he knows i have had numerous sleepless nights and fights about this issue so it is a BIG DEAL to me.
Anyways I am having a hard time believing him about this last time. I just don't know why. I think to myself about the facts.
1. they were drinking in the room from 5pm to lets say 7:30 or 8pm?? Im not sure but I would assume this is what happened as he said they were drinking for a while then went to the food court. If after going to food court they walked around aimlessly how long would that take to walk the strip? Is 1 hour enough?
2. If dinner was at 8:00 and food court is relatively quick, they would be done by 8:30pm. Then if they walked for one and half hours that would be 10:00pm. So if they went to KOI from 10pm to 2:30am that would be 4.5 hours! Isnt that too long? How long do people stay in a lounge? KOI is a small lounge and very very packed, the drinks are quite bad I hear. So why would they stay there all night. Apparently after KOI they then walked back to their hotel at the Encore.
2. Are strip clubs nearby the strip. Do you think it is possible that they aimlessly walked around for 1.5 hours then went to a stripclub by taking a cab? or went to KOI for a few drinks and thought this is lame and convinced him to go to stripclub for the last hours? so if they went to stripclub from 11:30-2:30am, is this enough time for a stripclub?
3. how much are the cover charges to get into the clubs for bachelor party groups? Would they be able to take a cab from the stripclub to the vegas strip back and then walk to the hotel?
4. I just don't know which makes more sense. If they did go, maybe his friend wouldnt have said to me he was shocked that my husband refused to go and called me controlling psycho? He would have just shut up and never mentioned anything right? OR maybe his friend said that to me cause he was INITIALLY really shocked that my husband refused to go but as the group convinced him to go later on in the evening maybe he just said that to try to make it seem like my husband never went.....to play devils's advocate? I mean how can you stay in KOI for 4 hours right?
5. Anyone know anything about how far stripclubs are from the strip. how much are cover charges? is it common to stay in KOI that long. anyone been? how long does it take to walk aimlessly along the strip from ENCORE trying to find a club/lounge to get into in vegas? Thanks.
Anyways, last weekend we went to a wedding of another friend of his and slept overnight at one of his friends house. This was the second time I met this guy friend of his who was at the Bachelor party.
This guy who has been nice to me the whole time otherwise, says to me towards the end of the night, "I have to tell you, your husband is so scared of you! This guy was acting like you had spies there!!? He just wouldn't come out to the clubs with us man! I was like dude!? she isn't even here!! How will she even know?? Lets just go! But he was like, no.. I can't.. I promised my wife I wouldn't go and I wont!"
I was very shocked internally esp as he said this to me in front of his wife there, but I just laughed it off, and said "oh my god you make me look so bad hunny, I didn't say he can't do anything, just did not want him to go to strip club. you make me sound like the devil" And then this friend proceeds to say, "no more like a lunatic crazy psycho!.....:surprise:". (with a haha just joking type attitutde) I mean isnt that inappropriate? He even told me he said "she is not here dude, lets just go". Would you be offended?
So later on I ask my husband what this friend of his is talking about? What the boys had to convince him to do? he then admits they had wanted him to go to a stripclub that night as the grooms best man had not made any reservations anywhere and the men were annoyed at the lack of planning the first night. they were saying lets do the stripclub tonight and the pool party and club bottle service tommorow but due to my husband refusing to go to striplclub they just ended up walking around and going to KOI as hakkasan had huge line. they waited in line for half hour apparently and thought this is not worth it and went to KOI.
FYI - He has not done anything inappropriate since his bachelor party. in his Bachelor party he lied to me numerous time about not getting a lapdance then later on admitted he did. we had agreed that he wouldnt go to a strip club in the first place before his party but he did and lied. Anyways since then we have gone to counseling about this issue, and had numerous conversations/fights/discussions about next bachelor parties. for this reason i assumed he wouldnt want the HASSLE of going to stripclub cause he knows i will leave him if i find out he did and he knows i have had numerous sleepless nights and fights about this issue so it is a BIG DEAL to me.
Anyways I am having a hard time believing him about this last time. I just don't know why. I think to myself about the facts.
1. they were drinking in the room from 5pm to lets say 7:30 or 8pm?? Im not sure but I would assume this is what happened as he said they were drinking for a while then went to the food court. If after going to food court they walked around aimlessly how long would that take to walk the strip? Is 1 hour enough?
2. If dinner was at 8:00 and food court is relatively quick, they would be done by 8:30pm. Then if they walked for one and half hours that would be 10:00pm. So if they went to KOI from 10pm to 2:30am that would be 4.5 hours! Isnt that too long? How long do people stay in a lounge? KOI is a small lounge and very very packed, the drinks are quite bad I hear. So why would they stay there all night. Apparently after KOI they then walked back to their hotel at the Encore.
2. Are strip clubs nearby the strip. Do you think it is possible that they aimlessly walked around for 1.5 hours then went to a stripclub by taking a cab? or went to KOI for a few drinks and thought this is lame and convinced him to go to stripclub for the last hours? so if they went to stripclub from 11:30-2:30am, is this enough time for a stripclub?
3. how much are the cover charges to get into the clubs for bachelor party groups? Would they be able to take a cab from the stripclub to the vegas strip back and then walk to the hotel?
4. I just don't know which makes more sense. If they did go, maybe his friend wouldnt have said to me he was shocked that my husband refused to go and called me controlling psycho? He would have just shut up and never mentioned anything right? OR maybe his friend said that to me cause he was INITIALLY really shocked that my husband refused to go but as the group convinced him to go later on in the evening maybe he just said that to try to make it seem like my husband never went.....to play devils's advocate? I mean how can you stay in KOI for 4 hours right?
5. Anyone know anything about how far stripclubs are from the strip. how much are cover charges? is it common to stay in KOI that long. anyone been? how long does it take to walk aimlessly along the strip from ENCORE trying to find a club/lounge to get into in vegas? Thanks.
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