Hi my name is Mark and im from CA, and im married and living in Europe.
I have been married for 2 years now and i think im done and my wife is done. Its a long story, but in a nutshell here is it. My wife who i believe to be mentally ill, but maybe im wrong. I live in a small apartement and my wife has a son and daughter from her previous 2 failed marriages. The son is 27 and the daughtter 30. The son is a bum basically , he went to college for 4 years and has not had a real job in years, he had some paid interships then they end and he collects unemployment for a year and lays on his butt.
He has never had a real job and he visits his mother, my wife every month, and then goes to his fathers for one month and does this for years and doesnt work. Now he lived with us for 6 months and laid on his lazy butt and wakes up, yes wakes up at 2pm and goes to bed at 4am everyday and does nothing, my wife says nothing. Me im in a foreign country and looking for work for now i teach english to make money.. My wife goes off on me always that i dont work i dont have a real job, but her 27 year old son lays on his lazy butt and never leaves his room and watches videos all day and throws his Resume out once a month.
Now i cant stand it, its killing me cause she stands up for him and i tell her its me or him, i want him out and he needs a job, her reply is its none of my business what he does. So 7 months later he finds a job in another country and i said yesssssssssssssss he is gone and i know he will come visit, but how often, he is 3 hours away by train, not far enough in my opinion. Well my wife said he will come every 2 months and see me, i said ohhhhhhhhhhhhh ok i can deal with that, well lets see he is has moved out 6 weeks ago and has visited 3 yes 3 times already.
I guess my point is this is not normal behaviour for me or for any man and to me he and my wife cant let go of eachother, she keeps him trapped like a child and treats him like he is 12. She invites him, he doesnt ask to come.
The daughter completlly normal lives on her on has a 10 year old child and doesnt really want to see the mother. When the grandson comes the son comes and its one big happy family for them, not for me, and the son showers naked, yes naked with the 10 year old grandson, howwwwwwwwwwwww weird is that.
There is just to much to tell, my wife is ultra ultra sensitive, you try to joke with her, have a little humour she takes it as a personel attack, i cant win, i cant have a talk with her.
Now what i havent done that i should of, i have lived here 1 year and have had a very hard time learining the langauge, very hard, and i have kinda gave up, but im making a little money, but my wife just pounds and poounds me leanrn the langauge or go back to your country.
ANY THOUGHTS ON THIS SITUATION.
I have been married for 2 years now and i think im done and my wife is done. Its a long story, but in a nutshell here is it. My wife who i believe to be mentally ill, but maybe im wrong. I live in a small apartement and my wife has a son and daughter from her previous 2 failed marriages. The son is 27 and the daughtter 30. The son is a bum basically , he went to college for 4 years and has not had a real job in years, he had some paid interships then they end and he collects unemployment for a year and lays on his butt.
He has never had a real job and he visits his mother, my wife every month, and then goes to his fathers for one month and does this for years and doesnt work. Now he lived with us for 6 months and laid on his lazy butt and wakes up, yes wakes up at 2pm and goes to bed at 4am everyday and does nothing, my wife says nothing. Me im in a foreign country and looking for work for now i teach english to make money.. My wife goes off on me always that i dont work i dont have a real job, but her 27 year old son lays on his lazy butt and never leaves his room and watches videos all day and throws his Resume out once a month.
Now i cant stand it, its killing me cause she stands up for him and i tell her its me or him, i want him out and he needs a job, her reply is its none of my business what he does. So 7 months later he finds a job in another country and i said yesssssssssssssss he is gone and i know he will come visit, but how often, he is 3 hours away by train, not far enough in my opinion. Well my wife said he will come every 2 months and see me, i said ohhhhhhhhhhhhh ok i can deal with that, well lets see he is has moved out 6 weeks ago and has visited 3 yes 3 times already.
I guess my point is this is not normal behaviour for me or for any man and to me he and my wife cant let go of eachother, she keeps him trapped like a child and treats him like he is 12. She invites him, he doesnt ask to come.
The daughter completlly normal lives on her on has a 10 year old child and doesnt really want to see the mother. When the grandson comes the son comes and its one big happy family for them, not for me, and the son showers naked, yes naked with the 10 year old grandson, howwwwwwwwwwwww weird is that.
There is just to much to tell, my wife is ultra ultra sensitive, you try to joke with her, have a little humour she takes it as a personel attack, i cant win, i cant have a talk with her.
Now what i havent done that i should of, i have lived here 1 year and have had a very hard time learining the langauge, very hard, and i have kinda gave up, but im making a little money, but my wife just pounds and poounds me leanrn the langauge or go back to your country.
ANY THOUGHTS ON THIS SITUATION.
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