Hello,
This is a serious post .No trolls please.
I'm looking for advice I guess.
I'm a 20 year old girl & all my life I have been quiet.During secondary school & sixth form I thought friends were distraction & that I could live without them so never really made an effort.
I would see pictures of class mates' nights out ,holidays & think "these kids are all party no play" .I basically used my school work to make me feel better about myself .All work no play affected me negatively & I didn't do as well as I wanted in my alevels.My class mates did well & I remember asking myself how that was even possible when they had spent all their time partying.
It wasn't until this year that I realised that to perform well you must be in a good state of mind & have all your needs met.I've realised that meaningful relationships & friendships are essential.
I was invited to my cousins party & one of my cousins friends kept talking to me,hugging me & touching me (Not I appropriately).I felt great & everyone was talking to me like they knew me.It was amazing & it really did hit me how much I was missing out /had missed out by isolating myself.
My Q is how can I make meaningful friendships ,enjoy life & stop being so tense.I can't afford to waste my life anymore.
Thanks:)
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