I've been friends with him for 12 years but he moved way over 10 hours away when we were still very young. Despite this we kept in touch via IM and phone calls which later progressed to long emails. In these emails he would sometimes say he loved me and even joked about when he proposes "in the future" a few years ago. But it was always platonic aside from when he said I was "exactly his type". He was my rock through every bad relationship and bereavement. We lost touch for 3 years when we got into relationships until he called me up one day...turns out he was now working very close to where I lived.
We met in person, essentially seeing each other for the first time since childhood. He was so handsome and we got along well. It ended up dawning on me that I had been falling for him for a while - but he has been with his girlfriend for 2 years. He was sad when I told him I was moving abroad for 1 year but he has been in pretty regular contact since then. He talks a lot about seeing me when I come home and mentioned that I was "beautiful" in an email after we met. Well the year is almost up and he has asked to see me. Should I meet him or not? Is it likely that he feels platonically or is it likely that he wants more despite having a girlfriend?
*not shunning female responses, would just like a male perspective!
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