This is a serious post .
I'm a 2nd year university student (female) as far as I can remember I've never had any male attention .It really didn't bother until now (this will make sense later on).
One of the things I've realised about myself is I don't put much effort into my appearance.My mum has started commenting about it saying I look scruffy:0 .Yesterday my dad even said "you need to do something about that hair" .Lol it's always in a messy bun.
When I'm at uni on a typical day I will wear my hair in a bun,no eyeliner ,just powder and moisturiser on my face ,wear leggings ,a hoodie & pumps then carry my massive backpack.
The older I get the more I realise I have to put a bit more effort in ,invest in makeup,do nice hairstyles with my hair etc but on the other hand I feel like it's just not me.Ive always have been a tom boy.
Personally I like guys that take pride in their appearance , are well groomed ,definitely not the same as me but don't they all say "You attract what you are".
I feel like I can't keep on going like this,at 20 going to 21 this is embarrassing.I've never done anything with a guy or had a boyfriend apart from hug friends .My parents find it odd how I don't have one lmao.My excuse is always "I'm too busy" .
My Q is do you think changing my ways is essential in trying to move on to the next chapter in my life even though I don't feel like it's completely ME.
Put the internet to work for you.
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