A week ago I got a phone call telling me my husband was having an affair. after going through all the emotions and talking with my husband I am feeling so confused. We have been together for 32 yrs, married 25 yrs and have two children over the age of 18. He tells me he does love me, but he also loves her. She wants him to leave me and move in with her now, but he says he is not ready for that yet. after 25 yrs, we have alot of life that has to be sorted out. He says he wants to continue to see her to see where it may end up. He doesn't feel he knows enough about her to end everything with me for her yet. He still lives at home with us and spends the weekends with her. We have not told the children or anyone else about this, So I have NO ONE to talk to about this, just my husband! So when he is with her I am home alone with no one to talk to and trying to keep a brave face on infront of the kids. I'm going CRAZY! I cant bare to lose him, I want to work th is out, When he is with me I feel like we may still have a chance, we have had sex twice, but he also had sex with her. This all feels so wrong, but do I let him keep " dating" his mistress? or make him choose one of us and stand the chance of losing him to her?
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