I mean, if I'm going to have sex, I'd rather have it with a friend, not an enemy or a stranger. People say you need a label to have sex. I never saw that in the instruction booklet. All I know is that it requires adults and consent.
Friends can eat together, friends can play video games together, friends can go to games together, friends can go to a movie together, but friends cant share sex together? Something about that seems asinine. I'd rather share something special as sex with someone who's my friend rather than someone who's not. Then people say sex disqualifies you as friends. How? I can see how stealing would disqualify you as friends, but sex isn't stealing. I can see how betraying someone can disqualify you as friends, but sex isn't betrayal. I can see how lying to somebody can disqualify you as friends, but sex isn't lying. Sex is a good thing, not a bad thing. And I'd prefer to do good things with people who are my friends, the people I know and trust.
I guess the difference is that my friends are mature and experienced enough to separate sex from emotions. They know the difference between intimate sex and casual sex just to get off. Plus, my friends aren't uptight about nudity. I have the type of friends who will get dressed in front of you whenever they're getting ready to go to leave somewhere. Somehow, seeing those friends naked, or having sex with people who are just friends never affected the bonds of our friendship. In many ways, it actually strengthened our bond because there is a lot of trust that goes with the conditions of the friendship. If one of my friends got dressed in front of me, that's an indicator that she trusts me and I will develop a stronger appreciation of our friendship for trusting me that much.
Put the internet to work for you.
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