Hello All,
Me 36 Her 32 first marriage for both, 3 kids ages 8, 6, and 4.
Met in college. married at 26 and 22.
Bomb drop in November of last year, she changed overnight, cold distant, wants to be free, unfulfilled, feels empty, dressing provactively, excersising. Wanted to wait until after the holidays to separate. It was a month and a half of hell, she was addicted to her phone, texting her friends all the time.
Starting January 1st, we separated with the kids staying in the marital home. She told me I emotionally abused her for our entire relationship, my mouth hit the floor. I got suspicious and checked her phone records and found she was texting another man from church, not frequent or at odd times but this guy looks like a sleezeball, I ask her to see the texts and she deleted out of fear of me being jealous which I have some jealous tendencies in the past I must admit. She called me home after two weeks and we had makeup sex after me calling her out on her texting this guy, BTW the sex life was great. She was fine for a few days then started to drift again. The relationship turned toxic after a few weeks and I finally left. Another month went by with us nesting the kids at the house.
Then I got mad and wouldn't leave the house since she wanted the seperation not me so I went back to the house, she would stay till 9pm on her nights then leave, staying at a friends house.
Eventually I waived the white flag and went back to nesting the kids at the marital home which is where we stand now.
She is still pissed at me and we barely communicate. Lawyers were initiated by me, and a marital settlement agreement has been drafted but its in her court.
I am moving on but want closure. Its like she just walked away...
Me 36 Her 32 first marriage for both, 3 kids ages 8, 6, and 4.
Met in college. married at 26 and 22.
Bomb drop in November of last year, she changed overnight, cold distant, wants to be free, unfulfilled, feels empty, dressing provactively, excersising. Wanted to wait until after the holidays to separate. It was a month and a half of hell, she was addicted to her phone, texting her friends all the time.
Starting January 1st, we separated with the kids staying in the marital home. She told me I emotionally abused her for our entire relationship, my mouth hit the floor. I got suspicious and checked her phone records and found she was texting another man from church, not frequent or at odd times but this guy looks like a sleezeball, I ask her to see the texts and she deleted out of fear of me being jealous which I have some jealous tendencies in the past I must admit. She called me home after two weeks and we had makeup sex after me calling her out on her texting this guy, BTW the sex life was great. She was fine for a few days then started to drift again. The relationship turned toxic after a few weeks and I finally left. Another month went by with us nesting the kids at the house.
Then I got mad and wouldn't leave the house since she wanted the seperation not me so I went back to the house, she would stay till 9pm on her nights then leave, staying at a friends house.
Eventually I waived the white flag and went back to nesting the kids at the marital home which is where we stand now.
She is still pissed at me and we barely communicate. Lawyers were initiated by me, and a marital settlement agreement has been drafted but its in her court.
I am moving on but want closure. Its like she just walked away...
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