Am I over thinking things?

In the beginning of our relationship, my husband was friends with a couple, John and Amy. And he admitted to having a huge crush on Amy for a long time, even while John was with her, and that once they got serious, he stopped crushing on her. It was a little awkward, cause even after Amy got married to John, my husband continued to kind of cuddle/lay in bed with her and stop by her work a lot alone. When our relationship got serious, Amy had a huge problem with my husband and I being together. And John seemed to follow her lead. It eventually came to the point that my husband was being so passive and they were saying such hurtful things, that I told him that I'm not putting up with it anymore and it's either them or me. He picked me. But has resented me for it ever since.

Now, four years later, John reached out to my husband via text, apologizing for him and Amy's actions in the past saying that she's with child now. Only a day after they started texting, my husband got Amy's number from John and congratulated her. It's been two days and they're still texting back and forth, nonstop. Nothing inappropriate, but I'm kind of disappointed that my husband was so urgent to start talking and continue talking to her even after I told him how it would make me feel uncomfortable if they started talking so much.

I understand the simple, "Hey, congratulations. How are you?" But like, he responds back to her asap when it takes him two hours to get back to me. And he only texts her when I'm not around. I'm upset and feeling a little hurt. Am I being ridiculous?

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