I'm good friends with this girl who is very nice, however her younger 19 yr old sister is a different matter whatsoever. Having said that she is quite attached to her older sis and doesnt have many friends so being the "relationship guru" of our social circle generally I am often pushed to give her advice as her sister has often asked me stuff too.
Recently she has been going on about how her sister gets boyfriends and I get boyfriends but she never does. However she doesnt have a nice personality at all TBH.
For example, whenever we go on the bus with her she acts like a schoolchild and coughs loudly/glares at strangers whenever they talk or drop something accidentally or whatever. Same in cafes or the library. On the other hand she does the weirdest stuff like drum her foot loudly for 2 minutes straight or shake herself around in the chair for a minute or put her feet on the table and expects others to be OK with this.
The other day we were in Costa and she wanted an extra chair but our table only had 2, so she just walked up and grabbed it from a table where some other people were sitting w/o even saying Please can I have this or Thank you. She is very passive aggressive and often says stuff like "Only girly girls who have nothing to do but put on makeup get boyfriends" (i hardly even wear it lol) or creeps in and sits "sulking" and huffing every 10 seconds in her sister's room when I'm around when she wants some alone time with her sister. On the other hand she will be polite and fakely nice to your face but its all a show or to be manipulative (for example, a few months ago she came in and asked me very nicely what we were doing later, I said going to the cinema as a double date and she went to her sister and whined her way into coming saying stuff like "you dont love me").
She generally just acts like shes "entitled" to a boyfriend even though she doesn't put much effort into her appearance. A lot of my closest friends are tomboys and theres nothing wrong with being one but at the same time she really doesnt take care of herself (IMHO - stuff like leggings as pants, muddy rucksacks, never wears sunscreen or foundation with SPF though shes pale) and then complains about guys being "shallow" for not looking her way.
Why do some girls like this feel entitled to boyfriends? (I have also known guys who acted the same way btw)
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