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After 30 years of marriage.

I am so excited to find this site. I have been separated from my husband for over 5 months. We were together for 31 years, and have two children. I am desperately in need advice. Aside from the custody, support, visitation decisions. I have recently found out my estranged husband is in a relationship with someone. I have 50 different emotions, going through my mind , every day. About three weeks ago, he told me that he still loved me, and wanted to try to save our marriage. After being married for such a long time, I did entertain the same thoughts. I must say, during our marriage, he was verbally and emotionally abusive. Even through all the years, I still cherished our love for each other. My dilemma that I am facing now is I still love him and would do anything to be "normal ", My heart is conflicted. Then my ex told me that he got back with his girlfriend. I am in shock and hurting all over again. Why would he do this to me? What was his motive? I have received nasty text from his girlfriend. She doesn't want him to see his children for fear that he will be around me? I feel like she is a "rebound" girlfriend, or maybe my ex is going through "midlife" crisis. I just want to stop these roller coaster of emotions. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Forgive me in advance, if I rambled. :)

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