I've recently started seeing a guy who lives at the opposite end of the city to me. The thing is I've never had a boyfriend or a sexual relationship prior to this. At this stage, I wouldn't class him as a boyfriend or anything remotely close to that, but we are seeing each other and spent the last weekend together. I've slept at his house once, but I'd like to stay over with him at the weekends. Thing is, I haven't told my parents and just keeping coming up with excuses as to where I am, I say I'm seeing friends etc. I'm a bit concerned that eventually the excuses will run out. It's not like I'm banned from seeing guys or anything - I'm 21 and my parents aren't religious or anything. It's more of a matter of is it worth telling them? I don't think this will turn into a relationship because I'm leaving for uni in September, but at the same time I don't like tip-toeing around and lying all the time.
I think the main thing stopping me telling them, is, , though they'd be fine about it (they're not prudes when it comes to sex), because I've not really dated much before they might be worried about me getting hurt etc.
What's the best thing to do - keep up the excuses or come clean? At the moment they don't suspect, but they probably will eventually if it carries on.
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