Hi everyone. I'm 40 years old, have been married for almost 15 years and have 4 children. About 3 years ago my wife began going to a gym. Now she works there and spends almost every waking moment there. Last summer she told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to stay married because "she never loved me as much as I loved her." I did all the wrong things--chased her etc. Anyway, later in the fall I caught her chatting with guys online and then she lied about it and tried to hide it, but I found that out too. The texts weren't overtly sexual, but definitely flirty. She told me it was because she didn't love me as much as I love her, etc. I have been twisting in the wind for months now. Today I finally told her that she has to make a decision. Either recommit to investing in the family or end the relationship. I did this via text message. She didn't respond and when she got back she acted like nothing happened. I think she thinks I'm bluffing, but I'm not. I'm just so confused. I have a good job (tenured professor) we have a nice home and wonderful kids. She has emotionally abandoned us all. I don't know what to do. Any advice? Insights? Anything? Thanks
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