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He doesn't want a divorce

I have expressed to my husband that I wanted a divorce for several times now, starting less than 2 years ago. However, he keeps promising me this and that and somehow always reels me back in.

My husband believes that the main reason of me wanting divorce is that his family (mom and brother) live with us and have caused so many problems and now trying to fix the problems by trying to find a place for them (but they don't want to leave). Yes they're the reason I wanted divorce but there's more.. Long story short, I haven't been happy with my husband, I actually became depressed while with him. I don't see myself happy if I stay with him. My husband also promised me that he will change and make me happy. I am not convinced.

I am in Canada and according to prov law I need to be separated for a year to be able to file for a divorce. I don't have money to get my own place (and I don't want to waste money by renting), so to get things going, I moved to basement of my own house few weeks ago and try to not talk to my husband unless it's necessary.

We have a 15 month old boy. I am also starting work in 2 weeks and hopefully in 6 months I will have enough money and courage to hire a good lawyer.

In the meantime, is there anything else I could do? How do I convince my husband to divorce me? I feel trapped.. Thanks for reading

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