I've been seeing a guy from online dating. We connected well from messages and I looked forward to meeting him. But when I met him, I didn't feel an in-person chemistry although I enjoyed our first date.
So I agreed to another which we had yesterday. At the end of the date, he made a motion to kiss me which I was not expecting. Anyway it somehow feel like there was no spark when we kissed - I sort of pulled away quickly. I feel really badly about this but I was only reacting naturally :/
He text me saying he definitely wanted to see me again but I gave it some thought and realised I didn't feel the same way. I didn't want to lead him on as I didn't think it was fair on him.
We had a chat on the phone about it later and I realised that some of the assumptions I'd made about him were wrong - I sort of warmed to him a lot more hearing compliments he was telling me which he didn't give me on the date and I just felt more emotion and heart from him. In the end, I just felt more emotionally connected to him during that phone call then during the two dates. We also managed to have better conversation which didn't have awkward silences. I realised then that he was more into me than I thought but I hadn't felt that on he was on the dates (wish I hadn't jumped to conclusions).
Anyway, we still agreed to see each other every so often in a completely platonic way. I don't know where to go from here. I don't think he felt head over heels for me - he said he thought there was definitely potential though. I'm feeling some doubt from my decision but I know this is not strong enough to act on as of yet. I just found it weird that we connected better in a phone call than our in person dates.
I know I have to stand by my decision. But do you think I did the right thing by opting out now? Should I have given it another date?
Put the internet to work for you.
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