A while back my boyfriend had a conversation with a girl that really bothered me. He told me at the time he was going to block this girl (a good friend of his) because of a conversation they had. I asked what was said and he told me she was reminiscing about things they used to talk about when they first started talking and was being emotional (they met through a dating site a few years ago). I asked to see this conversation but he wouldn't show me as he didn't want me to see what she had said to him and he didn't say anything bad to her. He told me he didn't know how she felt and was confused about why she was saying this so he let the conversation carry on.
I was angry at the girl so I sent her a bit of a rude message (as I believed she was being out of order). Anyway she replied with screenshots of their conversation where he had told her he didn't want her or think about her sexually but he doesn't like the thought of her with anyone else and that she was good looking. Her replies were quite cold in response to him. She told me she had no interest in him whatsoever and that he loves me and has only ever said she was good looking but that's it and they are only friends with no dodgy messages or anything.
I confronted him about this and he tells me he didn't mean what he said to her, he said it it the moment to make her feel better as she was being emotional.and said it in the moment to be nice. He has reassured me many times he doesn't have feelings for her and even swore this on his life.
He told me he regrets what he said and shouldn't have said it but doesn't think it was that bad as he didn't mean what he said to her. Also has tried to reassure me he wouldn't be with me if he had feelings for anyone else and that he loves me. He told me he would block her even though she' a friend as he can't blame me for not wanting them to talk any more.
Anyway even though this was a while ago it still bothers me a lot. Am I just overreacting to worry a lot about this? I can't make up my mind on what to think. I am feeling insecure but I am insecure anyway..
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