I have had a "soul mate" friendship with a guy since early secondary school. We did everything together as we grew up. He has always been effiminate and I suppose because of this and because I just assumed he might be gay was why we have had this relationship on this level. I felt I could tell him anything over the years from boyfriend problems, periods, parents anything as I knew he was confidential.
I have been at UWE in Bristol for comming up to two years and would always spend time with him at his home when I returned to Torquay. About a year ago he had a major bust up with his parents and moved into his own flat and seemed dreadfully lonely and depressed and quiet clingy texting me all the time. We went out two nights ago and got incredibly drunk and I stayed at his (the relationship has never been physical) I was looking for some loo paper when I came across some sexy items of lingerie and charged out in a joking manner a said woohoo who is she! He became really angry and snatched them off me. I then said I think I'd better go and he got uncontrollably upset. I said what Evers the matter? In short he told me the items where his and that he had been a crossdresser for as long as he could remember, he said he felt comfortable dressed as a woman but knew his parents would never accept it. The cross dressing thing has changed our dynamic I just don't know where we go fro m her, I'd hate to lose my friend but I am struggling right now. What do I do?How do I help my friend?
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