My husband and I were Married 6 years but together 11. This was our second Marriage. Everything was going along just fine till his oldest son moved into the house. He made it very difficult to be with his dad. If his father and I wanted to be intermit he would burst into the bedroom so we put a lock on the door, but then he would stand at the door and knock on it till his father answered. We had fights about this. When we fought my husband would stop talking to me. His son was 18 years old and doing this running around and calling his father Daddy. When I would give my husband a hug, his son would be there rubbing his back. One time(more then once) when I put my laundry in the washing machine when I left for work, I came home to find that his son had taken the wet clothes out and placed on top of the dryer. Fast forward to this kid being 23 years old. His son would say things like all woman are *****s and ****s. One time his father agreed with me, because his kid was spitting on the porch, and I find it to be a disgusting habit his father told him to knock it off. The kid cried these alligator tears and said to his father that he loved me more then him. That was the last time his father ever agreed with me on anything concerning this kid. He would even tell his own mother off. He's caused alot of rift. The final straw was when he said to his father "Daddy I met this 30 year old and told her all about you, and she wants to meet you and she's better then Sara" which is me his wife. So one Friday my husband and his son were no where to be found. It was the last straw for me. He came home and was telling me off, and said that he didn't cheat. Well why would he bring that up if I hadn't. I left. He never talked to me, never tried to get in touch with me, never even looked for me. He waitiend a year and a half and filed for divorce. I spoke to him a month before the divorce. He said he loved me, but that he just doesn't want to b e married any longer. He said that I was the one who ran away from the marriage and it was obvious to him that I run away from my problems. But when we have arguments, he enlist the help of his son, who then enlist the help of his friends. He didn't treat me this bad till his son moved in. His son told him that I would lie about him to get him in trouble. Now we are divorced. He called me a few days after the divorce for nothing, but I have not heard from him since. He did say that he still has feelings for me, but doesn't want to argue with me about his kids. My question is, will he regret this?
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