It's a guy who's pretty much his best friend and has been for a couple of years. I didn't know him and his girlfriend that much before but we've come to know them more recently.
I have always had a hard time working out whether he has a crush or whether he's just really friendly and polite, especially since my boyfriend has said that he doesn't really have close female friends.
He's always been really complimentary about me to my boyfriend, saying I'm really nice, funny and cool (I figured he was just a nice guy of course) but there have been other things. Once I bought my boyfriend a present he wanted, and apparently his best friend, (let's name him John) said about me, aww, she's cute.
He never goes on facebook at all, but he wrote a message on my wall to wish me a happy birthday. Then, the year after, he was a little annoyed at my boyfriend because he had forgotten to tell him it was my birthday.
He's never done this to my face, but apparently he has asked my boyfriend questions about our sex life and stuff like that, which I was surprised about.
As I mentioned, we've started to spend more time with John and his girlfriend, and John always laughs at my jokes, and he's even started teasing me sometimes.
He even asked me the other day if I had changed my hair, then told my boyfriend that it suited me when I wasn't listening. I've seen him looking at me a couple of times, but I'm really not sure.
The thing is, I've started to feel so awkward about it. He's a nice guy but I'm obviously dating his best friend and would never do that to him or to John's girlfriend.
John's girlfriend is apparently very jealous and insecure, and I would never want her to think anything like that. However, as I mentioned, he's generally very polite, and he knows i'm shy, so he might just be trying to make me feel comfortable.
Sometimes when we're together though, he doesn't speak to me that much, so it's hard to say. If it's true, I'd like to discourage it for obvious reasons, but I couldn't speak to anyone about it without causing an issue.
Does it sound like he does or is he just being nice? He also made a joke to my boyfriend about a 'girlfriend swap' and about being alone with me and his girlfriend.
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