My H and I have been married for quite some time. Here in the past two years we found out he has Aspergers. That explains alot of our issues since it is more of a social disorder.
My H and I have not gotten along for a while and I am contemplating divorce. I feel badly because it is not right to leave someone because you find out they have an issues. It was for better or for worse ya know. He has been there for my worse and now I am thinking of leaving him because of his worse.
The issues is the things he says to me are very cold. HE seems almost like a narcissist. I know now that this disorder causes people often to have an inability to compromise or to take into account others feelings. I am not sure I can live with this. He has become borderline verbally and emotionally abusive. I don't think I can stay in this kind of marriage.
Are any of you out there married to an aspie or an aspie your self. I ask because I wonder how much of this is beyond his control and how much of this he chooses to do.
Just for your information: I am going to put this in the mental health forum as well. Just thought I might get a different response in this forum.
My H and I have not gotten along for a while and I am contemplating divorce. I feel badly because it is not right to leave someone because you find out they have an issues. It was for better or for worse ya know. He has been there for my worse and now I am thinking of leaving him because of his worse.
The issues is the things he says to me are very cold. HE seems almost like a narcissist. I know now that this disorder causes people often to have an inability to compromise or to take into account others feelings. I am not sure I can live with this. He has become borderline verbally and emotionally abusive. I don't think I can stay in this kind of marriage.
Are any of you out there married to an aspie or an aspie your self. I ask because I wonder how much of this is beyond his control and how much of this he chooses to do.
Just for your information: I am going to put this in the mental health forum as well. Just thought I might get a different response in this forum.
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