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How to avoid gold diggers?

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I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship with a girl. I've secured a job in London which will be paying me large amounts of money. I'm going into my third year of university and I just couldn't avoid telling my friends how much I'll be earning. I'm not even joking when I say I feel like certain girls in my friendship group are already being a lot more friendly towards me. I might be totally misinterpreting the signs though.

There is a girl in my friendship group I have liked for a long time now and she's probably already heard the news. I always feel like (probably because I'm optimistic) that I have a chance with this girl. Sometimes I feel she shows signs of liking me in the same way I like her but I never act or do anything because she is in a long term relationship, so it just wouldn't be right of me to do so. If she suddenly is a lot more flirty with me do I presume she is blinded by what money I will be earning, do I wait to make sure she isn't etc?

If I'm meeting a girl and it comes to the subject of what I'll be doing after university do I avoid telling them I've secured a job (the name of the job insinuates it's high paying)? I really want people to like me for who I am and considering I've had no experience with girls (and I'm now going to actually start making more of an effort) how do I approach this? Thanks for any help...

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