Ok so ever since my post pregnancy (c sec)(it has been 16 months now) even though i show interest in sex and tell him directly/indirectly my hubby would not want to even get intimate no matter what(He was like that ever since our marriage too but it has become worse now). We havent had sex for almost 16 months now. I am working out and on diet trying to reduce weight (I am 146 lbs and 5'2") so i am not overweight as well. While changing he sometimes would comment my belly as it looks like a man's. Ouch that's a worse comment so far. He would just say it straight on my face. He knows i am dieting and dont eat much , when i once expressed that i feel hungry at times, he wud say its gud that i control my hunger so it wud make less fat that way. He's always been a kind of person who always always look at other women /girls at malls or at the beach , i observe him the way he looks he admires and he scans from top to bottom. I knew it but i was always like oh w ell every man does. Just not able to decide what kind of a guy he is, In general he's a gud guy but when i ask him jokingly that he might have an affair or something he wud just laugh n comment something as if there's no affair (I see no sign of fear or nervous or any whenever i ask him if he's seeing any girl) he says he's not. Then in that case why is he not showing interest, huh
:(Update : also he wud react if he sees someone holding hands or even if its a romantic scene on tv , he says oh god all that is just for showoff n hype. he acts as if he dont care and doesn't want to do all that with me cuz he knows as a girl i too expect him to be like intimate and all but he indirectly says heck with the romance and makes fun even if its on tv
Update 2: he also says that i am always in 'that' mood and always have this feeling of wanting to get intimate, he makes fun of it. but come on i am his wife what is there so funny about it. he says i always get such dreams n all
Update 3: i even tried go for drinks and expressed clearly , i tried all sorts of things dressing up in a sexy night wear , told him directly but nope nothing works , he still doesnt want to getintimate no matter wat
:(Update : also he wud react if he sees someone holding hands or even if its a romantic scene on tv , he says oh god all that is just for showoff n hype. he acts as if he dont care and doesn't want to do all that with me cuz he knows as a girl i too expect him to be like intimate and all but he indirectly says heck with the romance and makes fun even if its on tv
Update 2: he also says that i am always in 'that' mood and always have this feeling of wanting to get intimate, he makes fun of it. but come on i am his wife what is there so funny about it. he says i always get such dreams n all
Update 3: i even tried go for drinks and expressed clearly , i tried all sorts of things dressing up in a sexy night wear , told him directly but nope nothing works , he still doesnt want to getintimate no matter wat
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