I have been seeing this girl for about a month and a half. She is great but she has said she doesn't want to rush a relationship and can sometimes be emotionally hard to read but she seems to like me and we have great chemistry. We have slept together but I haven't stayed over at her place yet. I invited her to my house for the weekend and it was the first time we woke up together. During that weekend, she suggested maybe we should do a sexual health check since things were progressing physically, and she said I could go with her or go on my own and get it done.
I agreed. The next day I had to go to the hospital because of some abnormalities that my doctor thought could be cancer. That was on Monday. On Tuesday she texted me asking how my check up went and if I had done a sexual health check as well or if I wanted to go with her that week but I was really freaked out about my results from the cancer test and did not text her back until the next day. On Wednesday I just texted saying I had had the cancer check and that I was anxious. She was sweet and said I could call if she needed me. I had more tests and thankfully the cancer was ruled out and I texted to tell her later that night, but I still had more tests to do. She texted me back saying well done for being brave. I had more tests and was really busy with work on Thursday, so I didn't text her, but on Friday I texted her saying I was sorry for being out of touch and that it had been a hard week with work and the hospital. I said I was on my way to the airport for my vacation tha t weekend that she knew about - and asked how she had been?
She didn't text me back for 2 days and responded on Sunday night saying "I'm good - busy weekend. Hope your vacation is fun. (smiley face)." I got the feeling she is mad at me, because she didn't ask me any follow up questions and the text was so short. Considering she keeps saying how she doesn't want to rush to be my girlfriend I didn't think I was obligated to be texting her all the time when I'm busy. I thought that was a bit selfish of her not to be more understanding of why I was out of touch, considering the tough week I had, so I didn't respond. That was a week ago and I have returned from holiday today, but have not heard from her. Do you think she is playing it cool? Did I do anything wrong? Is she mad at me?
I agreed. The next day I had to go to the hospital because of some abnormalities that my doctor thought could be cancer. That was on Monday. On Tuesday she texted me asking how my check up went and if I had done a sexual health check as well or if I wanted to go with her that week but I was really freaked out about my results from the cancer test and did not text her back until the next day. On Wednesday I just texted saying I had had the cancer check and that I was anxious. She was sweet and said I could call if she needed me. I had more tests and thankfully the cancer was ruled out and I texted to tell her later that night, but I still had more tests to do. She texted me back saying well done for being brave. I had more tests and was really busy with work on Thursday, so I didn't text her, but on Friday I texted her saying I was sorry for being out of touch and that it had been a hard week with work and the hospital. I said I was on my way to the airport for my vacation tha t weekend that she knew about - and asked how she had been?
She didn't text me back for 2 days and responded on Sunday night saying "I'm good - busy weekend. Hope your vacation is fun. (smiley face)." I got the feeling she is mad at me, because she didn't ask me any follow up questions and the text was so short. Considering she keeps saying how she doesn't want to rush to be my girlfriend I didn't think I was obligated to be texting her all the time when I'm busy. I thought that was a bit selfish of her not to be more understanding of why I was out of touch, considering the tough week I had, so I didn't respond. That was a week ago and I have returned from holiday today, but have not heard from her. Do you think she is playing it cool? Did I do anything wrong? Is she mad at me?
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