HD/LD: how do you react when ice starts to thaw?

Just ended a long dry spell with my wife. Brief general background is that our marriage has been crap for years. We both admit we've stayed together for our two kids (both of whom have special needs). Last year our count was 18. This year 7. Prior to most recent encounter, there was about a 2 month lull. In the past when we would come out of one of these spells I would get hopeful. Now I literally DGAF. I was suprised by the lack of effect this had on me. I actually don't care if we do it again. It feels GOOD. My wife immediately started asking me for favors and the thought that we might hook up again was completely irrelevant to my evaluation as to whether I wanted to help her out. Just curious if anyone here has had the same experience and what the result was in your change of mindset.
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