This is just a stray rant.
As most of you know my first (love of my life) wife was a serial beteayer. My wonderful second wife had a small EA a few years ago. The deal was zero contact and if she saw him at a writer's conference, she was to either ignore or report all contacts.
So today we went to a Bose store as I wanted to buy her headphones (she was grateful, but the real reason was so she'd stop using mine- she had no need to know that, however.). I was laughing about me being more or less propositioned by a 36 year old female attorney from a group I was hosting at a work function last night (this is funny as I am not handsome- clearly she had too much to drink). Obviously I rebuffed the offer to escort her to her room. So she had a small confession. That posom who was after her was at a writer's conference in June and he was all over her for 4 days. Talking, flirting... coming to where she was eating... And I'm like 'what the friggin' hell'! You're supposed to report this as it happens. Never told me when she called in the evenings. Never even told me when she got home....
So there I am giving her the third degree and I can feel myself getting madder and madder. Now I'm peppering her with questions......
For what it's worth she seems to have handled it well and enlisted a couple gal pals to always be by her side and blah blah blah.....
So there I go starting to recall every little thing that might make me question her honesty and now I'm wondering about everything and all that past garbage hits me (like when she said if she ever betrayed me she would never confess) and other stuff.
I hate this crap. I asked for his address (he lives about 90 minutes away) as maybe it's time he and I had a #%*×€%@ "talk" about this, but she's telling me to "just let it go" and "nothing happened" and she hasn't got it......... So I sent an email and put his old sorry a $$ on notice and I'm just flat stewing.
I don't need any replies, I'm just pissed off and will stay this way for a while. This post is my therapy.
She's just sitting there chatting it up with her mom.
As most of you know my first (love of my life) wife was a serial beteayer. My wonderful second wife had a small EA a few years ago. The deal was zero contact and if she saw him at a writer's conference, she was to either ignore or report all contacts.
So today we went to a Bose store as I wanted to buy her headphones (she was grateful, but the real reason was so she'd stop using mine- she had no need to know that, however.). I was laughing about me being more or less propositioned by a 36 year old female attorney from a group I was hosting at a work function last night (this is funny as I am not handsome- clearly she had too much to drink). Obviously I rebuffed the offer to escort her to her room. So she had a small confession. That posom who was after her was at a writer's conference in June and he was all over her for 4 days. Talking, flirting... coming to where she was eating... And I'm like 'what the friggin' hell'! You're supposed to report this as it happens. Never told me when she called in the evenings. Never even told me when she got home....
So there I am giving her the third degree and I can feel myself getting madder and madder. Now I'm peppering her with questions......
For what it's worth she seems to have handled it well and enlisted a couple gal pals to always be by her side and blah blah blah.....
So there I go starting to recall every little thing that might make me question her honesty and now I'm wondering about everything and all that past garbage hits me (like when she said if she ever betrayed me she would never confess) and other stuff.
I hate this crap. I asked for his address (he lives about 90 minutes away) as maybe it's time he and I had a #%*×€%@ "talk" about this, but she's telling me to "just let it go" and "nothing happened" and she hasn't got it......... So I sent an email and put his old sorry a $$ on notice and I'm just flat stewing.
I don't need any replies, I'm just pissed off and will stay this way for a while. This post is my therapy.
She's just sitting there chatting it up with her mom.
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