Basically this friend of my girlfriends had referred to her as "darling", and might I add this friend is newly acquainted with her (known her about 9days). Met her in her job (as she's working away). This friend is female and my girlfriend always makes a point of bringing her up a lot and compliment her all the time, it really grates on me. Fair enough, she's a nice person, but I get a bit fed up of hearing about her, seen as she's a source of my anxiety right now.
My girlfriend is bi, and although thus shouldn't matter, it compounds my concerns, I was told she had a boyfriend when I confronted my girlfriend about how she seems so upbeat around her and tells me she's "amazing" and "she loves her". I confronted her and admitted my feelings when I told her I was slightly jealous, as I care about her.
All of a sudden they seem to talk a lot, tag each other in stuff, and I recently saw something that made feel a little upset. The girl in question remarked that she (herself) was special and during stating this she called her (my girlfriend) darling. My girlfriend said "it's because you are", essentially agreeing . Now for one, this comment could have been banter or jokey, since they were talking about said girls misfortune. However, I feel it could be a double meaning, in the sense it is made to look like a harmless thing, but it's actually a flirtatious inside joke. I feel as though my nose is being rubbed in it. Like it's right in front of me.
I would ignore this sort of thing, but it all seems a bit odd, and she seems unusually pally with her considering the time elapsed since they met. They are far too playful. She claims it's because they live and work together they get to know each other well.
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