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Had anyone else had an amicable divorce that only one person wanted? But one that by the time you got through, you both did?
So now, although I never wanted the divorce, as I hold the papers and read over them, I think I am ready for it. I still love him, but the more he tries to comfort me, the more I feel like pulling away and telling him he doesn't get to do that anymore. I have maintained that if he turned around and said he was wrong and he's all in to start over, that I would. But now, I don't think so. We've told people. And talked about how to split our things and our finances.
Most of all, I have hurt so very, very much. And he keeps trying to console me and be close to me, and I think that is starting to push me away from him. It makes me a little sad, but at the same time, I feel like it is healthy in a way, too.
I only wish he would stop looking at me with such care... And stop acting like he's attracted to me. I'm feeling very black and white right now, and the puzzle pieces are not fitting where I think they should. Either he wants to be with me, or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, he needs to stop acting like he is still my H.
Right...?
http://ift.tt/1owKjtl
Had anyone else had an amicable divorce that only one person wanted? But one that by the time you got through, you both did?
So now, although I never wanted the divorce, as I hold the papers and read over them, I think I am ready for it. I still love him, but the more he tries to comfort me, the more I feel like pulling away and telling him he doesn't get to do that anymore. I have maintained that if he turned around and said he was wrong and he's all in to start over, that I would. But now, I don't think so. We've told people. And talked about how to split our things and our finances.
Most of all, I have hurt so very, very much. And he keeps trying to console me and be close to me, and I think that is starting to push me away from him. It makes me a little sad, but at the same time, I feel like it is healthy in a way, too.
I only wish he would stop looking at me with such care... And stop acting like he's attracted to me. I'm feeling very black and white right now, and the puzzle pieces are not fitting where I think they should. Either he wants to be with me, or he doesn't. And if he doesn't, he needs to stop acting like he is still my H.
Right...?
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