I've been really stressed at work and have also taken on studying for a professional qualification. My business has gone through a tough time and I'm doing everything I can to get it sorted. Thankfully, I've got a busy couple of weeks ahead, but need to do all my marketing alongside this. Plus, I'm really run down with a lingering viral infection which has wiped me out.
This has majorly taken it's toll on my libido. Usually high drive, when it comes to sex I would rather pull my toenails out with red hot pliers at the moment.
My partner is sulking, but honestly, we have been together for 7 years. Will it really hurt him to go a couple of weeks with just using his hand and laptop? I feel at breaking point and the more he tries, the less I want sex with him. It's yet another committment and someone else draining my time and energy.
I'll probably get a slating from the men here, but seriously, I could quite happily run away and join the circus right now. All I want to do is to be left alone and get on with work. Once I've finished, I want to work out, have a shower and collapse. Being asked for sex is frankly annoying. I feel like telling him that he's a big boy and he'll have to wait until I've finished this busy spurt.
I should also add that I find it hard to live with someone. I seriously like my alone time and it's what keeps me a sane and reasonable person. I honestly feel I have no energy to give him right now. However, it's for the greater good. Once I've finished this business qualification, I will have networked and once I've done what I need to do I can move forward and make more money. This is great for both of us.
Am I being unreasonable? I think a short term sacrifice is worth it. Nevertheless, I'm a stubborn person and the more I'm mithered and cajolled, they less likely I am to give in, 'cause it just gives me the rage!
Any suggestions on how to get the libido up? Btw, there's no way I'm letting someone be intimate with me if I don't feel comfortable with it, that's borderline rape or sexual assult in my books.
Once I've got my massive to do list out of the way, I'm happy to go at it like a rabbit again.
This has majorly taken it's toll on my libido. Usually high drive, when it comes to sex I would rather pull my toenails out with red hot pliers at the moment.
My partner is sulking, but honestly, we have been together for 7 years. Will it really hurt him to go a couple of weeks with just using his hand and laptop? I feel at breaking point and the more he tries, the less I want sex with him. It's yet another committment and someone else draining my time and energy.
I'll probably get a slating from the men here, but seriously, I could quite happily run away and join the circus right now. All I want to do is to be left alone and get on with work. Once I've finished, I want to work out, have a shower and collapse. Being asked for sex is frankly annoying. I feel like telling him that he's a big boy and he'll have to wait until I've finished this busy spurt.
I should also add that I find it hard to live with someone. I seriously like my alone time and it's what keeps me a sane and reasonable person. I honestly feel I have no energy to give him right now. However, it's for the greater good. Once I've finished this business qualification, I will have networked and once I've done what I need to do I can move forward and make more money. This is great for both of us.
Am I being unreasonable? I think a short term sacrifice is worth it. Nevertheless, I'm a stubborn person and the more I'm mithered and cajolled, they less likely I am to give in, 'cause it just gives me the rage!
Any suggestions on how to get the libido up? Btw, there's no way I'm letting someone be intimate with me if I don't feel comfortable with it, that's borderline rape or sexual assult in my books.
Once I've got my massive to do list out of the way, I'm happy to go at it like a rabbit again.
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