Hello Everyone,
After my wife started a new job, she put a password on her phone. Being the paranoid person I am, I thought this was strange since she never had a password in the past. So I come to find out she's been texting with a married co-worker. One day I'm at home with my wife and when she leaves the room I hear a text come through on her phone so I look to see who it is...It was from "work" and it said to get rid of your husband so we can talk dirty. Now since I was already a little suspicious, I got really upset and confronted her about it. I got the...it was a joke explanation. I didn't believe it because she had an online sexual relationship in the past (that a whole other story). So anyway, she removes the password but has not stopped the texting. Now she just deletes the texts from this guy. It's driving me crazy to the point I confronted her again today. She keeps saying she's not cheating on me, but this texting is driving me nuts. I've looked at the phone bill and they text everyday, sometimes for hours at a time. Then when I ask her why they would text for 3 hours, she says she didn't. Basically she lies right to my face. Today I threatened divorce but in the back of my mind I feel it could be a mistake and I'm just being paranoid...we've been married 15 years and have 3 kids (10,11,13) and it would kill me if I hurt the kids by leaving. Of course when ask I her about it, she denies anything is going on and says she can't believe I don't trust her and gets mad. I don't know what to do, but I can't stop thinking about it. I can understand why she would look elsewhere for attention since I have my own issues, but I have always been honest with her and tried to share my feelings.
Please help!
After my wife started a new job, she put a password on her phone. Being the paranoid person I am, I thought this was strange since she never had a password in the past. So I come to find out she's been texting with a married co-worker. One day I'm at home with my wife and when she leaves the room I hear a text come through on her phone so I look to see who it is...It was from "work" and it said to get rid of your husband so we can talk dirty. Now since I was already a little suspicious, I got really upset and confronted her about it. I got the...it was a joke explanation. I didn't believe it because she had an online sexual relationship in the past (that a whole other story). So anyway, she removes the password but has not stopped the texting. Now she just deletes the texts from this guy. It's driving me crazy to the point I confronted her again today. She keeps saying she's not cheating on me, but this texting is driving me nuts. I've looked at the phone bill and they text everyday, sometimes for hours at a time. Then when I ask her why they would text for 3 hours, she says she didn't. Basically she lies right to my face. Today I threatened divorce but in the back of my mind I feel it could be a mistake and I'm just being paranoid...we've been married 15 years and have 3 kids (10,11,13) and it would kill me if I hurt the kids by leaving. Of course when ask I her about it, she denies anything is going on and says she can't believe I don't trust her and gets mad. I don't know what to do, but I can't stop thinking about it. I can understand why she would look elsewhere for attention since I have my own issues, but I have always been honest with her and tried to share my feelings.
Please help!
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