In every situation with two parties, the "crazy"/manipulative/dishonest party who also holds a loaded gun, has the control. The one who talks as if they are willing to steer the airplane into the ground. Especially if they have the only parachute on board.
I've been wondering for a long time, would it not be an idiotic thing to do, for a man to marry a woman through the legal system of the US?
It seems to me like the US legal system encourages and rewards women within a marriage to become that "crazy" terrorist on board.
If I get into a legal contract with a cell phone carrier, and at some point they start to abuse our agreement, I can pay a reasonable cancellation fee and leave the contract for good.
If I get into a legal marriage in the US, as a male, I am totally at the mercy of my spouse. If she happens to reveal herself as a crazy one, the legal system immediately equips her with a loaded gun and a license to kill.
I don't believe women, in general, are as honest as some men can be. They simply don't have the integrity and accountability that some men do have. If you want to marry a honest woman, do not marry. Dealing with her dishonesty is not a question of "if", but "when". Their upbringing and society expectations do not judge them from early childhood by their reliability. Men are judged by their reliability (and many fail indeed, which is another story).
In the past this feminine dishonesty was possible to live with and even tolerate, since women were not given that "loaded gun" by the society.
I am not against marriage per se. I do want the lifelong friendship, partnership, cooperation, romance. I just know that the vast majority of women want something else, less mutual and more selfish (although they might not admit it even to themselves, sometimes).
I would not want to get on a flight where there's at least a 50% chance that it's going to crash. It seems to me marriage in the US has even less chances to last. There's nothing wrong with the concept of marriage. It's wonderful! It's the legal system that abused it and made it such a fraudulent deal (for men).
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I've been wondering for a long time, would it not be an idiotic thing to do, for a man to marry a woman through the legal system of the US?
It seems to me like the US legal system encourages and rewards women within a marriage to become that "crazy" terrorist on board.
If I get into a legal contract with a cell phone carrier, and at some point they start to abuse our agreement, I can pay a reasonable cancellation fee and leave the contract for good.
If I get into a legal marriage in the US, as a male, I am totally at the mercy of my spouse. If she happens to reveal herself as a crazy one, the legal system immediately equips her with a loaded gun and a license to kill.
I don't believe women, in general, are as honest as some men can be. They simply don't have the integrity and accountability that some men do have. If you want to marry a honest woman, do not marry. Dealing with her dishonesty is not a question of "if", but "when". Their upbringing and society expectations do not judge them from early childhood by their reliability. Men are judged by their reliability (and many fail indeed, which is another story).
In the past this feminine dishonesty was possible to live with and even tolerate, since women were not given that "loaded gun" by the society.
I am not against marriage per se. I do want the lifelong friendship, partnership, cooperation, romance. I just know that the vast majority of women want something else, less mutual and more selfish (although they might not admit it even to themselves, sometimes).
I would not want to get on a flight where there's at least a 50% chance that it's going to crash. It seems to me marriage in the US has even less chances to last. There's nothing wrong with the concept of marriage. It's wonderful! It's the legal system that abused it and made it such a fraudulent deal (for men).
Your opinions?
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